🪞 Ask Yourself:
- What forms of wealth did your family or culture pass down that have never been acknowledged as such?
(Was it resourcefulness? Reciprocity? Grief literacy? The ability to read a room before it reads you?)
- Where have you internalised the belief that you're only “wealthy” if someone else validates it?
- If your wealth couldn’t be extracted, quantified, or sold, what would it look like?
🚶♀️Step Forward
🛠️ TOOL: The Uncounted Ledger
Draw a two-column list this week.
Column 1: Counted Wealth
Everything you’ve been taught to measure - money, assets, followers, career milestones.
Column 2: Uncounted Wealth
Everything you hold that doesn’t show up on a spreadsheet - time freedom, intuition, chosen family, cross-cultural fluency, adaptability, joy, rage-as-compass, ability to pause without panic.
Then ask:
– Which column has built more of your life’s meaning?
– Which one has made you feel safest in your own skin?
Don’t just reflect. Let it rewire how you define value moving forward.
🌱 Small Challenge
⚡ This week’s Wealth Move: Reclaim a form of wealth you were taught to downplay.
Maybe it’s your ability to say no.
Maybe it’s your cultural intelligence.
Maybe it’s your creativity that doesn’t “scale.”
Maybe it’s your devotion to care, ritual, or non-linear growth.
Choose one and let it lead this week.
Name it. Use it. Design with it. Refuse to explain it.
This is value reclamation, not for applause, but for integration.
WISDOM WHISPERER
There are times in life when the question of knowing if one can think differently than one thinks, and perceive differently than one sees, is absolutely necessary if one is to go on looking and reflecting at all.
Michel Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 2
Why this whisper? Redefining wealth asks more than a mindset shift or new behaviours. It asks for a radical rethinking of what you've been trained to count as valuable - how we think and perceive value.
Foucault reminds us: if we never question our definitions or what we're conditioned to measure, we never truly evolve them.
We remain bound to the systems that framed those measurements in the first place.
This is your invitation: To not just accumulate differently, but to see differently. To look through the lens of offered beliefs, cultural inheritance, and unseen currencies and then imagine otherwise.